Friday, September 11, 2009

Addendum to a little less random

So this is how busy I am. It's been more than a year I think since my laptop crashed and was totally wiped out and I still apparently have no useful applications installed on it and thus am typing this directly into blogger. Not to mention very cranky 1 yr old next to me wants me to pay attention to only him, which is of course, what I should be doing. Good luck to me. Oh and I've apparently forgotten how to use a working shift button with my left hand. such is life.

I just wanted to add this little bit, an addendum if you will to the opening post. Am I doing this because I think anyone cares about what I have to say? No. God knows I care very little for what anyone thinks about anything (one of my many personality flaws, I'm sure), so I really don't ever expect anyone to care about what I think, even when on occasion they do. Always surprises me. But I do have endless opinions about endless topics and they do need somewhere to go, don't they?

Anyway, I have more useless information in my head than 1 person should have and it also needs a place to go. Otherwise it just falls out and gets wasted. Not to mention that I know more about strollers, car seats, diaper bags and all other sorts of baby gear than most people who write about it for a living. I'm like that about everything. Obsessive about details and researching every little purchase or concern and always having to know what's new in whatever area I'm stuck on at the moment. I may as well write some of it down. even if just for my own reference later- memory not what it used to be after spending so much time pregnant and drowning in baby poo. Kills brain cells.

I know that perhaps you'll read this and think oh, how stupid she is or how sad and pathetic or perhaps when you read about how messy, dirty, crazy, screwed up and insane my house, children, life are you'll just feel that much better about your own. Even if that's all I do, I guess I've achieved something, haven't I? who doesn't want to have someone else to feel better than when they really need it. If I can do that for anyone, I'm glad to be of service. Perhaps I should post a photo essay of our house come aftermath of a daycare center explosion. If you really ever want to feel good about yourself, that would probably do it.

I will not post specific tidbits about how silly, smart, cute, funny, insane, dangerous, etc, etc, my children are. They may well be all of those things, but nobody really cares about that save myself and their father and perhaps to a lesser extent various relatives Not even all of our relatives give two hoots, so why should you. When they come up it will be more in the abstract or occasional manner, shall we say. I will not be gooey and gushy. I'm sure there are plenty of other places to find that. (I'll save those things for Facebook or Twitter- oh, that feeds just to the right doesn't it...oh, well. Sorry.)

Finally, I'm not a writer. I can write (when not fighting said 1 yr old for the keyboard) and write reasonably well on lots of stuff or so I'm told, but I'm still not a writer (we do have 1 in the family though and we are very proud that his 1st book of poetry will be out soon). It's not what I do. Apparently what I mostly do is have babies and spend 11 or 12 hours a day alone with them. Maybe this is my way of pretending I have someone to talk to over the age of 4.




life nest.baby.toy: a little less random (introduction expanded)

Being pregnant this time has been very different, the one thing that has been the same though through all four has been that my eyes and hands go all wonky shall we say. As a result it’s getting harder and harder to make a decent piece of jewelry. I’ve been working on what should be a very pretty Chrysoprase cluster bracelet and I’d like it to stay that way, but it’s getting harder to make nice little twists. I’ve got one more custom piece to do and then I’m gong to pull back until the baby arrives, probably around Thanksgiving. after that, as baby et al will allow, I plan to get as much as possible of the masses of backlogged pieces ready pre-Christmas.

Since I’ve decided to put a mini hold on Lissenden Frost production and since I can still type (despite my broken shift button) and since I still have a small portion of my brain in working order (at the moment), I’ve decided to split the two into separate sites. All Lissenden Frost business will stay on the LF site- news, updates, photos etc- and everything else will go on the new site, life.nest.baby.toy. I’ll be posting about various things, basically the name covers it and the name covers pretty much anything- life, home, babies and toys. I’ve got 11 posts in the works already plus 2 stories that I could post, so more soon to follow.


So you have an idea of what to expect here’s a quick breakdown of what’s happening.

Life is the general catchall that will cover anything I feel like writing about that doesn’t fit somewhere else, so that’s pretty much anything at all. Nest is anything home related to house and home, mine or anyone’s that strikes my fancy. Here I would like to say how much I love House of Turquoise, Tangled and true , decor8 and Design Mom. There are of course many more and I intend to add a links list as soon as I can.

Baby is pretty easy to figure out- anything about my or any babies or baby related topics, from breastfeeding (I have a 4 part piece planned which will hopefully be the first thing to go up) to how i’m considering selling my children to the gypsies (if they would just come down my street). Which is something that I really should never say and would of course never do. I saw an episode of The Philanthropist about child slavery in Haiti. I couldn’t believe that I didn’t know anything about it and that yes, it is true. I’m horrified and sad and shocked that it does and can exist. And it absolutely breaks my heart that any child should suffer in any way for even a second, but that enduring suffering is so beyond what I even have the capacity to imagine.

And, finally, Toy, is anything that I have found or have that I love for use in said nest with said babies etc. Maybe if I get really ambitious and suddenly have more time than I do now, I might do actual reviews (which I very much enjoy doing), but for now it will just be quick mentions of products or items that make my life easier, which always makes me happier. We are consummate consumers in this house (my 4 yr old had an overwhelming capacity for logo recognition at even 18 mo and now can recite any commercial after 1 viewing), so we have plenty to comment on.

This is who I am: I have 3 little boys, ages 4, 2 and 1 and will soon also have a little girl. I have basically been pregnant and/or breastfeeding since October of 2004. Before that I worked at Brant Publications. My final title was Production Manager for Art in America and The Magazine Antiques. I started as Production Assistant for Art in America. I worked an average of 9-12 hours a day for whole time I worked there (up until 1 week before my son was born and even all day on the phone and via email up until the day he was born) and as hellish a place as it is to work, it was still much less work and far easier than taking care of these children all day. (But I am infinitely happier now.) Before that I painted, took pictures and shot video, ran a record company in Chapel Hill, NC, got an MA in Media Studies from The New School and lots of other stuff. All of which I gave up gladly so that I could have babies. They are with me all the time. Right now I have one shoved into the chair behind me pulling my hair, which is part of why it takes me so long to get anything done.

Hopefully, sooner rather than later I will have the regular posts going up. I hope you’ll come back.

life nest.baby.toy: a little less random

Being pregnant this time has been very different, the one thing that has been the same though through all four has been that my eyes and hands go all wonky shall we say. As a result it’s getting harder and harder to make a decent piece of jewelry. I’ve been working on what should be a very pretty Chrysoprase cluster bracelet and I’d like it to stay that way, but it’s getting harder to make nice little twists. I’ve got one more custom piece to do and then I’m gong to pull back until the baby arrives, probably around Thanksgiving. after that, as baby et al will allow, I plan to get as much as possible of the masses of backlogged pieces ready pre-Christmas.

Since I’ve decided to put a mini hold on Lissenden Frost production and since I can still type (despite my broken shift button) and since I still have a small portion of my brain in working order (at the moment), I’ve decided to split the two into separate sites. All Lissenden Frost business will stay on the LF site- news, updates, photos etc- and everything else will go on the new site, life.nest.baby.toy. (LifeNestBabyToy.com) I’ll be posting about various things, basically the name covers it and the name covers pretty much anything- life, home, babies and toys. I’ve got 11 posts in the works already plus 2 stories that I could post, so more soon to follow.

And more on LifeNestBabyToy.com right now.